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Harcourts WA CEO Shane Kempton on the "fear disguised as humility" pattern that costs capable agents listings every week
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TRUE OR FALSE?
In Manhattan, a wave of ultra-thin “pencil towers” were built because developers could buy air rights from neighbouring buildings. Some are so narrow that only a few apartments span each floor.
(Scroll to the bottom for the answer!)
In today’s edition of The Brief
When humility holds back real estate careers
New VIC reserve price laws may prompt vendors to abandon auctions
King’s Birthday Honours: property leaders recognised in national list
Today’s read time: 5 minutes, 50 seconds
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SALES STRATEGY
Is there a career cost to being “too humble” in real estate?
In real estate, one of the most common career blockers isn’t a lack of skill, it’s the hesitation to confidently step forward at the moment of decision. Shane Kempton, CEO of Harcourts Western Australia, says many capable agents, BDMs and leaders are “friendly, approachable, hard-working, and all round great humans,” yet struggle when it comes time to clearly ask for the business.
“But when the moment comes to confidently step forward and say: ‘I believe we are the best choice for you’… they retreat,” he says.
He recalls a sales professional who could easily build rapport, deliver value, and complete strong appraisals, but consistently failed at the final step.
“He would build great rapport. Provide advice. Complete the appraisal. Then leave without confidently asking, ‘Are you ready for us to help you achieve the best result?’”
He thought asking felt pushy, but by not asking, all he really did was warm the clients up for the next agent who was willing to confidently recommend themselves.
Over time, he argues, this becomes “fear disguised as humility,” where hesitation is mistaken for professionalism, but ultimately costs listings and opportunity.
At the core of the issue, Shane says, is a misunderstanding between arrogance and conviction - and the impact of failing to communicate the difference.
“Arrogance says: ‘I’m better than everyone else, ... Confidence says: ‘I genuinely believe I can help you achieve a better outcome.’”
He extends the lesson into leadership, where many professionals assume visibility will come from performance alone, but, he warns, the market and your organisation cannot reward value it cannot clearly see.
For Shane, the shift often comes down to “five seconds of courage” - the willingness to ask, recommend, and clearly articulate value without shrinking back.
“Your next level in business and leadership, sits on the other side of one uncomfortable conversation.”
What you'll learn in the full article:
The "five seconds of courage" concept: What separates agents who close from those who hesitate
Fear disguised as humility: How to recognise when you're hiding behind "niceness"
The invisible value problem: Why markets and organisations can't reward what they can't see
Transactional vs transformational framing: Two real examples of how to describe the same role differently
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VIC AUCTION LAW
REIV warns reserve disclosure rules will backfire
From 1 October, Victorian agents will need to publish a property's reserve price seven days before auction, and the REIV says the rule could push vendors away from auctions entirely. CEO Toby Balazs says 94% of Victorians surveyed would rethink their sale method under the reforms. He said the industry body had been weeks away from proposing its own alternative when the government announced the legislation: "If the objective is to improve transparency and confidence in the market, there were better ways to achieve that outcome.”
KING’S BIRTHDAY HONOURS
Property leaders feature in King's national list
From agency founders to institutional property chiefs, this year's King's Birthday Honours has a notable real estate thread. Philip Webb, founder of Philip Webb Real Estate and former REIV President, received an OAM for service to Melbourne, while strata pioneer Phillip Duggan was honoured posthumously. Dexus Chair Warwick Negus and QIC Real Estate's Deborah Coakley both received AM honours, though most were recognised for philanthropy and community work rather than property directly.
HOW IT SOLD
Builder transparency and 12 competing groups deliver $1.2m Clearview prior-to-auction result
A four-bedroom Clearview new-build sold for $1.2 million prior to auction after just 14 days, with a liveability-first campaign positioning the boutique builder's reputation and transparency as the primary point of difference over volume competitors. Rachel Lawrie of Stadium Real Estate attracted 12 competing buyer groups by staging the home to highlight space efficiency and quality finishes, securing an offer that the vendors accepted ahead of auction day.
Agents across Australia and New Zealand are turning sales into stories. getailsa.com
CELEBRITY HOMES
Football legend Roberto Carlos picks Fort Lauderdale
The Brazilian icon, widely considered one of the greatest left-backs in football history, has bought not one but two units at Fort Lauderdale's new Viceroy Residences tower. The 45-storey building features a private members club by the team behind LA hotspots Delilah and The Nice Guy.
MOVERS + SHAKERS
First National returns to Carlingford with Co Bridge appointment
First National Real Estate has strengthened its Sydney footprint with the appointment of Charles Fu as Principal of First National Real Estate Co Bridge Group in Carlingford. More here.
Award-winning auctioneer joins Ray White Malan + Co
Jordan Curd, the 2025 REIQ Auctioneer of the Year takes on a newly created Chief Auctioneer and Head of Performance role across the Gold Coast. More here.
Pinakin Patel opens REMAX Sapphire in Pakenham
The new office covers residential, commercial, and property management under one roof. More here.
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TRUE OR FALSE:
In Manhattan, a wave of ultra-thin “pencil towers” were built because developers could buy air rights from neighbouring buildings. Some are so narrow that only a few apartments span each floor.
And the answer is …
TRUE. Manhattan’s “pencil towers” exist because of a zoning mechanism called transferable development rights, commonly known as “air rights.” Under New York City’s planning rules, every building is allowed a maximum amount of floor space it can legally build (based on its lot size and zoning designation). If a neighbouring building is underbuilt, (often older churches, townhouses, or low-rise structures), it may have unused development capacity. That unused capacity can be sold to developers and effectively “added” to another site, allowing a new tower to rise far higher than the original plot would normally permit. The result is buildings with extreme height-to-width ratios, sometimes with only one or two residences per floor.
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