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đŻ They Donât Want a New Friend. They Want Results
The hidden cost of overplaying the relationship card
GOOD MORNING FROM ELITE AGENT
Itâs July 3, also known as Disobedience Day, not in a burn-your-license kind of way, but more a gentle nudge to ditch the usual routine. If youâve been writing the same listing blurbs, sticking to the same open times, or wearing the same âsafeâ outfit to every appraisal, maybe todayâs the day to shake it up. Try that quirky headline. Call the buyer you thought ghosted you. Post the behind-the-scenes photo. Real estate is full of rules, but every now and then, doing things your way is what gets people talking... and sometimes, buying.
Please note: this is a lighthearted reminder to break a rule (a harmless one, please).
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PROSPECTING
Ditch the friendship fantasy
Why agents must lead with confidence
In a refreshing shake-up of real estate dogma, Andy Reid challenges the beloved industry mantra that âItâs all about relationships.â While acknowledging the value of connection, Andy argues that this overplayed narrative is leading agents, especially newer ones, off course and out of listings.
Instead of focusing solely on being liked, he urges agents to remember why theyâre invited into someoneâs home in the first place: to solve a problem and sell the property. âSellers donât call us because they need more friends,â he writes. They call because they need certainty, leadership, and results.
Confidence, not counsel
Andy compares the ideal agent to a doctor - not a therapist. When agents defer to sellers on key decisions like pricing or method of sale, theyâre essentially saying, âYou decide,â which erodes their credibility. The result? Agents become passive order-takers, rather than strategic advisors.
The antidote is twofold: Relatability and Credibility. He explains that relatability builds trust (âI get youâ), while credibility instils confidence (âIâve got thisâ). When balanced, these traits project something far more valuable than a friendly vibe, and that is professional confidence.
Recalibrate your approach
Andy introduces the concept of the âLine of Confidence,â encouraging agents to assess why they lose listings. If itâs due to fees, you're not demonstrating enough value. If itâs about experience, you're likely underselling your knowledge. Either way, the fix isnât more hand-holding, itâs proving youâre the safe pair of hands that can deliver a result.
Read the full story here.
ICYMI, yesterday, we found out why Aussie agents are taking a leaf out of Barbara Corcoranâs playbook.
TOGETHER WITH VIEW.COM.AU
Buyers act faster, agents must think smarter
New research from View Media Groupâs Path to Purchase report shows Australians are shaving nearly nine months off the property buying process, down from 29.6 months in 2020 to 20.6 months in 2025. View CMO Paul Tyrrell attributes the urgency to falling interest rates, limited stock and looming incentives, with the active purchasing phase now lasting just 3.2 months.
The survey also found that Gen Z and Millennials increasingly rely on social media and Google to inform decisions, highlighting the need for agents to go beyond portals. While 85% of vendors still want multi-portal exposure, they also rank agent personality, suburb expertise and a clear marketing plan as top selection criteria.
Viewâs off-portal platform, view.resi, reflects this evolution, bundling premium presence, data tools and performance marketing to help agents build brand equity.
Read more about the Path to Purchase report here.
AFFORDABILITY FILES
Where buying beats renting (yes, really)
Domainâs latest data drop has revealed something a bit unexpected; there are suburbs where itâs actually cheaper to buy than rent. Theyâre not in Sydney or Melbourne (no surprises there), but regional areas and unit markets are offering up some interesting opportunities. Just 6% of suburbs tick the box for houses, but nearly a quarter of unit markets are coming out on top for affordability. Perth leads the way for capital cities, and regional WA, including the Pilbara, is topping the charts.
QLD POLICY
Form 2 or forget it: QLDâs new disclosure laws are coming
From 1 August 2025, Queensland agents wonât be sealing any deals without a completed Form 2 Seller Disclosure Statement and all the required certificates before the contractâs signed. Itâs part of a major law shake-up under the Property Law Act 2023, aimed at giving buyers key info upfront and reducing post-contract fallovers. Open homes, auctions, private sales - it all counts. The âbuyer bewareâ principle still applies, so your clientâs inspections and checks are still essential.
NZ PROPERTY
Flat is the new normal
New figures from realestate.co.nz show New Zealandâs property market has now been flat for 2.5 years, with the national average asking price sitting at $855,360 - down just 0.9% year-on-year. Southlandâs still punching above its weight, posting a second consecutive record-high average price, while Northland has cooled below $800k for the first time since mid-2024. National stock has been sliding since March, but Gisborne and the West Coast are bucking the trend.
CELEBRITY HOMES
Bella Thorneâs wild floral LA mansion hits the market
Bella Thorne is parting ways with her over-the-top Topanga Canyon estate, listing the flower-stuffed property for nearly $6 million AUD. The six-bedroom, seven-bathroom home is bursting with faux blooms, pastel murals, and enough whimsical flair to rival a movie set. Highlights include an ivy-covered bar, a fuchsia pool table, and a checkerboard lawn straight out of Alice in Wonderland.
MOVERS + SHAKERS
CEO gets on the tools at Barry Plant auction school
Barry Plant CEO Lisa Pennell surprised this yearâs Auction School cohort by joining the 10-week training program herself. More here.
South Australian wine regions unite under Ray White
Barossa Valley owners Darren Pratt and Jamie Wood have taken over Clare Valley alongside new business owner Connor Young, while former owner Mark O'Meagher focuses on sales. More here.
Success doesnât rest on weekends!
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AGENTS ON SOCIAL
Oh, I totally donât mind if my friends use other agents to sell their house⊠me, smiling politely while mentally popping them in the boot and slamming it shut. đđ
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Wishing you a productive day!
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