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đŁď¸ Rewrite the script to rewire the results
How the dialogue with yourself can impact your real estate success
GOOD MORNING FROM ELITE AGENT
Today is International Day of Living Together in Peace, aka the perfect excuse to sprinkle a little extra kindness into your open homes and calls. Real estate might be about listings and leads, but itâs also about people.
Whether you're calming a nervous first-home buyer, negotiating between fiery personalities, or just trying not to strangle your printer - peace, patience and a little human connection go a long way. So, channel your inner UN ambassador today.
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MOTIVATION
How inner dialogue drives real estate success
The words that shape your career
In real estate, it's easy to focus on scripts, systems, and market strategy, but the most influential force in an agentâs success isnât external at all. Itâs mindset. After more than a decade coaching professionals in this industry, Caroline Bolderston says one truth stands out: the beliefs agents hold about themselves shape how they perform. At the heart of this is the âI Amâ theory, how the phrases we use to define ourselves can either anchor us in limitation or unlock our potential for growth.
Limiting labels equals self-fulfilling loops
When an agent says âI am not organisedâ or âI am bad at technology,â theyâre not just describing themselves, theyâre creating a personal ceiling. These declarations often stem from past missteps or unchallenged assumptions.
Over time, they harden into identities that prevent meaningful progress. Without even realising it, agents avoid systems or skills they believe donât align with who they are, perpetuating the very struggles they want to overcome.
Rewrite the script to rewire the results
Breaking free starts with a pen and honest reflection. Identifying the most common limiting âI Amâ statements, and consciously flipping them into positive, present-tense affirmations, reframes the way agents see themselves. âI am focused,â âI am prepared,â and âI am constantly improvingâ are not just phrases; theyâre signals to the brain to expect, and build, new outcomes. Repetition embeds them deeper, gradually replacing the old script.
Growth is a habit, not a trait
The power of âI Amâ lies in its consistency. Like any high-performance skill, mindset needs reps. That means catching the old story as it resurfaces, interrupting it, and reinforcing the new one every day. Over time, those internal shifts show up in external wins: better prospecting, more confident listing presentations, and clearer communication with clients. Your identity isnât fixed. Itâs a decision you get to make, moment by moment.
Read the full story here.
ICYMI, yesterday we reported on Dougal Miller-Sneddon about the business values passed down from his grandfather, the late Harry M. Miller.
Together with MATTERPORT
Matterport's Project Genesis is reshaping property marketing
In Part 4 of Elite Agentâs Matterport series, Samantha McLean speaks with Mark Teo, Senior Director Sales & Partnerships, APAC at Matterport, about Project Genesis, an AI initiative set to transform how agents market properties. Unlike traditional AI models, itâs trained on spatial data from millions of real-world scans. âThis gives us a unique opportunity to develop AI that truly understands physical spaces in ways we haven't seen before,â says Mark.
The technology enables features like room measurements, layout interpretation, and photorealistic renovation previews. âMatterportâs AI tools are designed to enhance, not replace, an agentâs expertise,â he adds. With digital twins now featuring in 12% of listings (up from 2%), Mark believes the momentum is clear: âAgents who start integrating these tools today will be ahead of the curve as the industry moves toward fully interactive, AI-driven property marketing.â
Read more about Matterportâs Project Genesis here.
DEPT OF MIGRATION
Families fleeing cities for Queensland sunshine
Aussie families are packing up and heading to regional Queensland in record numbers, with 2.48 families moving in for every one that leaves. The Sunshine Coast tops the popularity list with an impressive 3.28 inbound-to-outbound ratio, while Sydney has seen the highest exodus nationwide. Remote work flexibility is driving this sea change, with many families prioritising lifestyle and affordability over city living. More than one in ten are even downsizing to smaller homes in their quest for a better life balance.
DEPT OF BUYER BEHAVIOUR
No roomies, thanks: Aussie buyers want space, peace and a bit of old-school charm
Aussie families arenât keen on sharing - whether itâs bedrooms, in-laws, or noisy neighbourhoods. A new LJ Hooker survey shows 60% of parents wonât buy if the kids have to bunk together, and just one in four are open to in-laws moving in (granny flat required). Gen Z is unexpectedly into formal dining rooms (bring on the dinner parties), and school zones still top the must-have list. For agents, itâs all about selling space, privacy, and a peaceful postcode.
DEPT OF AI
Your new favourite co-agent might just be AI
Say goodbye to boring admin and hello to smarter workflows. The AI-Powered Agents Library is packed with real estate-friendly tools, prompts, and time-saving tricks that help you do more (and stress less). Think ChatGPT templates for listing copy, automated follow-ups, and marketing magic, all tailored for agents who'd rather close deals than chase emails.
CELEBRITY HOMES

The historic Bob Dylan album cover home is for sale for $5 million. Photo: corcoran.com
Own a piece of rock music history
Bob Dylan's iconic "Bringing It All Back Home" album cover location is up for sale at nearly US$5M. The 72-acre Woodstock compound features a 1914 bluestone main house where the famous cover was shot in 1965, plus multiple residences and an amphitheatre. The historic property has hosted numerous musical legends over the decades, including Janis Joplin, Johnny Cash, and George Harrison.
MOVERS + SHAKERS
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