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đ„âI eat no for breakfastâ: Kamala Harris fires up AREC 2025
Why ânoâ doesnât have to be the end of a conversation
GOOD MORNING FROM ELITE AGENT
Coming to you live(ish) from AREC, where the coffeeâs strong and the networking is already louder than a Saturday auction. If you're here at the Gold Coast, give us a wave (or a coffee). If you're not, donât worry, weâve got all the standout moments, quotable quotes, and 'wait, did they just say that?' insights coming your way. Stay tuned. Itâs only day one and the lanyards are already tangled.
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AREC 2025
Kamala Harris: âI eat ânoâ for breakfastâ
What the Vice Presidentâs grit can teach real estate agents
At AREC 2025, US Vice President Kamala Harris delivered a powerful keynote that hit home with real estate professionals across the country. Drawing on lessons from her career in public service and law, Kamala unpacked what it really takes to succeed in tough negotiations.
Her no-nonsense approach, âI donât hear no. I eat no for breakfastâ, offered a timely reminder that preparation, empathy, and integrity arenât just nice-to-haves; theyâre non-negotiables for agents aiming to thrive in todayâs competitive market.
âNoâ isnât the end, itâs just the beginning
During the height of the US foreclosure crisis, Kamala rejected a US$4 billion bank settlement she deemed inadequate - an unpopular move at the time. But her persistence paid off, leading to a much stronger deal for homeowners. âI donât hear no. I eat no for breakfast,â she told a packed crowd at AREC. For agents navigating listing rejections or tough client conversations, her mindset is a playbook for staying the course and negotiating with confidence.
Lead with Empathy
Kamala may be known for her commanding presence, but she told attendees that empathy beats charisma every time: âPeople want to be heard and understood. They want to know theyâre being respected.â
For real estate professionals, this means going deeper than surface-level rapport. Genuinely listening to clientsâ concerns, whether theyâre buying their first home or downsizing after decades, can be the difference between a deal and a lost lead.
Integrity is the ultimate differentiator
In a relationship-driven industry, Kamala reminded agents that what people say about you when you're not in the room matters more than any marketing campaign. âYour reputation travels faster than you do. Integrity is the foundation.â
Itâs a clear call for agents to lead with ethics and play the long game - because in real estate, trust isnât built overnight, but it can pay dividends for years to come.
Read the full story here.
ICYMI, last week we discussed why real estate is not for the faint-hearted.
AREC DAY 1 WRAP
âGoodâ is the new âbrokeâ: Robin Banks fires up AREC with a reality check
Motivational speaker Robin Banks didnât come to AREC to make friends - he came to light a fire. âGoodâs gonna get you poor,â he told the crowd, tossing mediocrity straight into the bin. Forget just showing up and being nice; in todayâs market, you either stand out or fade out. Comparing agents to Olympians, he pointed out that fourth place gets nothing, while gold gets the glory, the fame, and sometimes a $400 million Nike deal. His fix? Daily affirmations, laser focus, and zero tolerance for average.
How a $2 hot dog beat a bottle of bubbles, and what it means for real estate
Will Guidara once served a $2 hot dog in a fine-dining restaurant, and it changed everything. At AREC, the hospitality guru told agents why unforgettable service isnât about being fancy, itâs about being thoughtful. The takeaway for agents? Ditch the generic settlement gift and start paying attention to what your client really wants.
Forget prestige, chase progress: Josh Pheganâs real talk on real estate
Josh Phegan didnât sugar-coat it at AREC: if youâre too good to take smaller listings, you might be too proud to make money. In a world where markets shift weekly and motivation changes daily, Josh urged agents to drop the ego, know their numbers, and recognise which âperformance zoneâ theyâre in - before burnout bites. His advice? Get clear, get moving, and execute. Real estate doesnât reward the most polished, it rewards the most consistent.
From flop to phenom: Steven Bartlettâs straight-talking playbook for business success
Steven Bartlett appeared live via Zoom at AREC and did what most people try to avoid, he led with failure. The Diary of a CEO host and Social Chain founder told a room full of real estate agents how his first business flopped because he cared more about his own vision than what customers actually wanted. That gut-punch turned into the breakthrough: success, he realised, isnât about having all the answers, itâs about listening, testing, and being brave enough to fail.
âYou set goals you didnât follow through withâ: David Walker urges agents to rebuild self-belief
Ray Whiteâs David Walker delivered a blunt message to real estate professionals at the AREC: success isnât just about market knowledge or client relationships, it starts with the relationship you have with yourself.
âYou set goals that you didn't follow through with. You made promises that you didn't keep. You said tomorrow would be better, but it wasn't,â David said. Arguing that fractured self-belief is at the heart of underperformance in the industry, he outlined the three traits he says separate top agents from the rest: clarity, strong identity, and disciplined resilience.
CELEBRITY HOMES

Emma Stone has listed her Austin mansion for $26.5M. Photo: moreland.com
Emma Stone's $26.5M Austin mansion hits the market
Oscar-winning actress Emma Stone and husband Dave McCary are selling their Georgian-style brick estate in Austin's Terrytown neighbourhood after three years of extensive renovations. The 10,000-square-foot property sits on 1.24 acres and features a four-bedroom main house, two-bedroom guesthouse, and garage with its own screening room. Despite their original plans to relocate their family to the property, the couple has decided to sell what is now one of Austin's most expensive residential listings.
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